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Freedom is not for all

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Women lost more than the right to choose when the U.S. Supreme Court reversed the landmark decision of Roe v. Wade. Women lost the freedom that comes with self-reliance, self-determination, and bodily autonomy. We are reminded, yet again, that we are second class citizens – subordinate and subject to ideals and laws that meet the needs of the few instead of the needs of the many. BIPOC women already stand in the gap when it comes to wealth, education, housing, poverty, maternal and infant mortality, and countless other inequities with high barriers. The Dobbs decision makes it almost impossible to move beyond the gap when options are restricted and women must live the life they are forced into, instead of the life they want. Life, liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness do not apply.

BIPOC women will be even more vulnerable to domestic violence, sexual assault, dating violence, and stalking. Research states that between 3% and 9% of women experience abuse during pregnancy and risk factors that assure higher rates of abuse, include young age, single, race/ethnicity, and poverty. Adults and children who are impregnated by rape or incest will be tied to those who violated them…for life. Lives will be lost and childhoods will be stolen. The psychological, physical, and financial toll of carrying an unwanted pregnancy to term in an environment that is already hostile to BIPOC women is incalculable. Denying the freedom to choose will have collateral consequences of compound, complex, trauma for generations of BIPOC communities.

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Ujima Inc., The National Center on Violence Against Women in the Black Community

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Sexual Assault Title IX

Feeling Safe in Math Class: Building and Maintaining Safe Spaces to Learn

Imagine you are at school, walking to 2nd period, when someone from your math class walks past you and pats your backside. You quickly look back at them and they smile and blow you a kiss. You may feel violated and upset. Later, you are scrolling through social media when you notice the same person sent you a DM. Instinctually, you open it and quickly realize they sent you a nude pic. You might feel grossed out and even angrier. Now you don’t want to go to school, especially to math class because you feel awkward and scared having to sit next to this person. You shouldn’t have to sit next to them in math class, or share the same spaces and thanks to Title IX, you do not have to.

This year marks the 50th anniversary of Title IX, a federal civil rights law that prohibits sex-based discrimination in any school. Part of this law protects students and school staff in K-12 schools, colleges and universities against sexual harassment, sexual assaults and unwelcomed conduct. The goal is to build and maintain a safe place in which students can learn and school staff can work free of hostility, fear and stress. Schools are tasked to provide supportive measures for affected students, such as school-based orders of protection, increase supervision and monitoring of school “hot spots”, and/or alter class schedules and locations when warranted. In effort to support all parties, counseling is to be made available to the victim/survivor, the person perpetrating the misconduct, and bystanders. The bottom line is, students and staff should feel safe and supported at school. Lack of supportive measures can lead to absenteeism, anxiety, and academic decline.

Schools can go beyond Title IX directives, as long as they do not conflict with the existing law, by providing prevention and awareness programs that promote consent, emphasize boundaries, and endorse social norms that protect against violence. Additionally, utilize codes of conduct (and alike) to outline Title IX and district protections, rules and designations.

The law states that the sexual misconduct must affect a student’s educational opportunities, and be either severe or pervasive. Although Title IX mandates supportive measures for victims/survivors, it is important to address harassment before it becomes severe or persistent and respond to all allegations of sexual misconduct. School staff and anyone who observes or has knowledge of victimization can, and should, also report or file a complaint. In the example above, anyone in the school hallway who observed the misconduct could file a report.

Advocate for safety by taking time to learn about protections at your school and inquire about prevention and awareness programs available.

If victimized, contact your school administrator or counselor to identify the school or district’s Title IX coordinator to make a report. Remember, you are not alone, it is not your fault, and help is available.

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Michelle Sacks

Michelle Sacks is Director of Training at The Houston Area Women’s Center

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Title IX

Reimagining Primary Prevention of Sexual Violence on College Campuses

College Students standing for change, primary prevention

Primary prevention is a term many are unfamiliar with unless they come from a public health background. It is also often misunderstood as risk reduction, which is implementing techniques that may reduce the likelihood that a potential victim experiences a sexual assault and sends a message that potential victims are the ones responsible for preventing an assault, not the perpetrator. For example, women and girls specifically are often encouraged to watch their drink, never walk alone at night, carry pepper spray and dress conservatively. Risk Reduction also perpetuates the myth that most sexual assaults are committed by a stranger, even though research informs us that at least 80% of sexual assault are committed by someone we know and trust. On the other hand, primary prevention is solely focused on creating a culture in which individuals would never consider sexually assaulting or harming another person. This is the heart of the mission of our movement, to end violence.

In order to prevent violence, we must consider the root cause of sexual violence, which is oppression. This means that our primary prevention programming on campuses or communities must be rooted in an anti-oppression framework that intentionally addresses racism, heterosexism, classism, sexism, and ableism. All of which we see on a daily basis in our communities. The promotion of strict gender roles, male entitlement, and victim-blaming culture also significantly contribute to the normalization of sexual violence. In order to engage in social norms change and anti-oppression work, our efforts must be community-led, meaning turning to the very folks who are disproportionally affected by this form of violence, BIPOC, and LGBTQ+ survivors of sexual violence. Presentations, workshops, and informational materials are helpful in developing a campus’s understanding of sexual violence, but they do little to change the social norms, attitudes, and behaviors that support sexual violence. Primary prevention work requires community organizing.

To begin this work, campuses can identify an internal department or partner with a community-based domestic and sexual violence organization to kick off a community-based program. The next step will be recruiting individuals within the campus who are passionate about the prevention of sexual violence and anti-oppression work. Advertise the opportunity widely on multiple different platforms and illicit feedback from student organizers already on campus on how to frame your messaging. Once you have a group of young people committed to this effort, building trust amongst one another is essential. Campuses can support this programming by providing food or monetary compensation to the participants. Organizing work is time-consuming and can be exhausting, to support retention individuals need to be compensated for their efforts. Basic informal, interactive training should be provided to all participants concerning community organizing principles, the root causes, and dynamics of sexual violence, bystander intervention, and primary prevention of sexual violence. The group will then begin to consider how they can promote protective factors on campus on reducing risk factors.

Our protective factors against sexual violence are a sense of connection, empathy, and a belief in equity for all individuals. With these protective factors in mind, the group can begin organizing events, activities, and discussions on campus that promote a sense of connection for folks. This can simply look like hosting fun and engaging events where all are welcome. Or it can look like holding listening sessions, or circle discussions concerning creating a more equitable environment on campus centering the voices of BIPOC and LGBTQ+ students.

Bystander intervention education and awareness can focus on the intervention of microaggressions and harmful comments that condone or support violence.
If reducing and eventually eliminating sexual violence from our communities is the goal, we must begin addressing the root causes of sexual violence. Let’s shift away from simply intervening in harmful behaviors and encouraging potential victims to protect themselves as much as possible, and instead consider how we are supporting efforts that shift harmful attitudes and beliefs to ones that are supportive of the respect and safety of all individuals. Let’s start with ourselves first, and commit to a lifetime of critical self-reflection and examination of our attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors that may or may not support a future of liberation.

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Jessica-Bellant-Prevention-and-Education-Director-1
Jessican Bellant is the Prevention and Education Director at the Bridge Over Troubled Waters.
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Title IX

Title IX Lessons from my Sisters

Family smiling and posing together with a text block that says "My sisters were constant reminders about fairness and fair play"

As we celebrate the 50th Anniversary of the Title IX Amendments of 1972, I am reminded of lessons my sisters emphasized regarding the general idea of fairness. As a youngster, I was never aware that it took the passage of Title IX to usher in requirements that opened the doors for women not just in sports, but in higher education.

I grew up with six sisters and it never dawned on me that such legislation was necessary. My sisters were constant reminders about fairness and fair play especially when it involved household chore assignments. Looking back, my sisters’ intentions never pointed out differences based on our sex. No, it was always about fairness in the chores assigned by our parents. In particular, “If I can wash dishes and do laundry, we all should be treated fairly.” As you may imagine, I hated chores, especially cleaning dishes and washing household laundry.

Title IX remains important legislation today because Title IX reminds us about the fundamental belief that everyone should be treated fairly regardless of their sex. Our individual sex should never be a consideration when opportunities are given, work is assigned and/or performed, or when facilities and equipment are utilized. The attention must be on individuals performing the same tasks regardless of their sex.

The 50th Anniversary should keep us committed to the work that remains necessary. Even though we still encounter challenges with Title IX and the work ahead, I am encouraged about the future. When I read about the phenomenal success of women in sports, academia, and employment I hear my sisters say, “If I can wash dishes and do laundry, we should all be treated fairly.” My sisters’ statement keeps me optimistic about the future for Title IX and the expectation that my granddaughter, great-nieces and nephews will be viewed not based on their sex, but on the similarities with the work and activity, they perform.

Finally, as we celebrate the 50th Anniversary of Title IX, I would like to especially thank my sisters. Before I knew anything about Title IX, my sisters were a steady reminder about fairness not based on one’s sex, but the simple view that we all should be treated fairly, especially when it involved household chores.

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Dr Bobby Brown

Dr. Bobby Brown is the Title IX Coordinator at Texas Southern University